Ask Aimee!

An irresponsible, job-hopping friend asked me to be a reference for her. How do I say "no" and still keep the friendship?

Especially in these competitive, unstable times, you should never jeopardize your professional integrity and reputation for someone unworthy of your praise. Offer to privately support her, help her find job openings, and practice her interviewing skills. You can still play an active role in her job search without being a reference.

Dive into a Job Fair

With the unemployment rate on the rise, job fairs are popping up almost every week in every major city across the country. They are a fantastic opportunity because they showcase ligitimate companies with legitimate job openings all under one roof. It gives you the chance to meet hiring managers, present your skills, and size up your competiton. It's like "speed dating" for someone looking for a job.

Before you leave the house, research and prioritize the companies that will be at the fair, print numerous copies of your resume on high-quality resume paper, plan your professional attire, and practice your elevator pitch. Preparation for a job fair greatly increases your chances of maximizing those opportunities.

Start with the companies you are least interested in and work your way up to your number one. That gives you time to settle your nerves, and figure out which accomplishments to highlight so the hiring manager will remember you and want to continue the conversation...meaning securing an actual interview with the company. Dive into a job fair!