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An irresponsible, job-hopping friend asked me to be a reference for her. How do I say "no" and still keep the friendship?

Especially in these competitive, unstable times, you should never jeopardize your professional integrity and reputation for someone unworthy of your praise. Offer to privately support her, help her find job openings, and practice her interviewing skills. You can still play an active role in her job search without being a reference.

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I'm embarrassed to tell anyone I've been laid off...what do I do?
The current unemployment conditions are actually a gift for job seekers. There is no longer any shame attached to being laid-off. You share the same set of circumstances with millions of other job seekers. Just make sure you separate yourself from the position. "My position was eliminated...not me."

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What do I wear to an interview if the company is "business casual"?
My advice is to always "err on the side of formality". It doesn't matter if the interviewer is wearing cut-offs, you still need to present your best, professional self. You also treat the interview more seriously when you dress seriously. Make a statement, and dress your best!

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Can I find a job on the Internet?
Yes, but it's not very likely. Statistically, the Internet as a job search strategy has less than a 10% success rate. It's a great resource and tool...just use it in conjunction with other, more effective strategies.

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Is changing careers a real possibility?
People change careers every day...it's not always easy, but it is very possible. You need to define your new direction, identify your transferable skills, and present a confident and convincing presentation.

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Do I really need a cover letter?
Definitely!! Even if the reader never looks at the cover letter, it is always better to "err on the side of formality". A professional cover letter is a perfect opportunity to demonstrate your writing skills, and to further convince the reader that you are the ideal candidate for the job.

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How early should I arrive to an interview?
You should be sitting quietly and patiently in the lobby, or waiting area, 15 minutes before your scheduled interview time. You may have to fill out paperwork or an application, and you want to make sure that is completed before your name is called. Bring a pen!!

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Is it OK that my resume is 3 pages?
Absolutely not! A resume is a snapshot...not a photo album. The reader will only spend 20 to 30 seconds reviewing your resume, and will probably never even look at the third page. Your most important and impressive information should "wow" the reader on the first page.